Topaz

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Friday, May 20, 2011

why?

30.04.2011
It was the first time Mummy bring along, Daddy, Topaz and Orion to see gynae after carrying the baby for 4-5 months! Nene was going along with us.

Topaz was very excited as Mummy told him he can "see" the baby. After the gynae, Dr Susanan Huang examine Mummy, she also confirmed the sex of the baby!. she announced firmly that "it is a Boy!" and she continued " i hardly made any mistake in the sex of the baby, it is a boy!"

Mummy and Daddy have expected it to be a boy.. Mummy has 3 brothers and 8 Uncles! Daddy has 2 brothers too! We knew the chance to have baby girl is very slim. Anyway, we are alright with 3 boys as they are our precious!

But, something went wrong..... Mummy noticed that Topaz's eyes turned red and suddenly he was so quiet. Oh! He is very sad!! Daddy and Mummy had to comfort him!!

He was very upset because it is a baby brother!! He was worry that his "Ta Qui" (Mummy's eldest brother) will take away his baby brother as Topaz had a deal with his "Ta qui" that if it is a boy then "Ta Qui" will take the baby away!!

It took us sometime to comfort him, we even called Mama to comfort him.

Topaz: "Why? Why like that?" then he cried. We know he prayed everynight for a baby girl so "Ta qui" cannot take away the baby!

It was a very meaningful day for Topaz, Mummy hopes he can learn from this lesson that don't simply give any promise to anyone!!